Today, I am 39 weeks pregnant.
No signs of labour yet.
Well, I say no signs, but that would be a lie. Things that are TMI have started happening, but none of the big signs are being forthcoming (ie waters breaking, bloody show, contractions, needing to push, baby appearing…)
It’s lovely to know that I’m not alone and I have a met a very cool group of ladies on Twitter who are all in the same position as me, so we get to share stories and hope to send each other into labour.
However, even though this is not my first child nor my first labour, I have NO IDEA what I’m waiting for.
With The Toddler, my waters broke at exactly 39 weeks. I had very little pain and basically no contractions to speak of and when I got to hospital, I was 3cm dilated and the MW, during the exam, put her fingers straight on the Toddlers’ head. So, I’ve never really done the early labour thing. I know what contractions feel like once they get started and I know what it feels like to be induced from 5cm but I don’t know whether the little aches I’ve been having or the movements I’ve been feeling are part of labour or something else.
My labour with the Toddler, once it got going, was very short – about 2 hours. And then 15 mins of pushing and she was here. After speaking to my MW, I have been advised to call when I’m feeling anything regular as its likely that this labour will also be short. I’ve protested by saying that I will call her when it starts to hurt, but she’s concerned that by that point it might be too late! I know, I’m an extremely lucky lady!
Last night (and not for the first time in the last three weeks!) I was concerned that I’d gone into labour. I was sat on my gym ball and listening to some music while making another Pearpear for The Toddler and I came over all hot, my back started to hurt like it does during monthlies and baby started wiggling like mental. I was getting some stabbing pains where we shouldn’t talk about and I was pretty certain that something was about to happen. I told my OH and waited for an hour to see if anything progressed.
Well, 24 hours later and I’m still here, sat on the damn ball, with nothing but some stabbing pains (which are this baby burying down.) I know that this baby was 3/5ths engaged last week and 2/5ths engaged two weeks before so it’s heading in the right direction. I just don’t have a clue what I’m waiting for when it comes to early labour.
Guess I might end up with a home birth after all!!